How To Bottom & Feel Amazing Doing It

Oct 18, 2021

People are always asking me, “Kevin, how do you bottom and feel amazing doing it?”

While I am happy that I’m at a point in my life where I know how to bottom in the most safe and fun way possible, I’m sad that a lot of you guys out there don’t know how to bottom properly.

It takes me back to those days where I knew nothing about bottoming and did so many things wrong, with NOBODY to help me. I’m sure you guys know this by now, but in the last three years since I’ve started regularly bottoming, I:

  • Couldn’t properly have sex at first because I felt excruciating pain in my ass when I tried.
  • Got an anal fissure because I rushed the anal douching process and beautifully bled out of my ass for an entire week.
  • Got an STD from somebody I didn’t have anal sex with (yes, you can get an STD from a blowjob).
  • Didn’t start finishing during sex until like February of this year.

What’s crazy is the fact that so many people could relate with these struggles that I’ve had. Ever since I started posting about my sex life on TikTok (@thecooleskev), I’ve received countless DM’s and comments from people asking me how to have sex that feels… good.

People are having sex that is painful, dirty, and unpleasant, which sucks to hear because bottoming is supposed to be fun. It IS fun, and it’s something you should look forward to doing.

I’ve made it my goal to help as many people as I can. I can’t condense everything I know into short DM’s and 50-second TikTok videos because there’s just too much. Also, I’m not allowed to talk about sex explicitly on TikTok, cause they’ll ban me if I do.

Which is why I’m writing this blog post. My first ever blog post, educating you all on how to bottom in the most fun and safe way possible. I don’t know who’s going to see this, so if you’re reading this, hey. I’m Kevin.

Before I start, I want to let you know that my first ever COURSE on bottoming is finally ready for you to have. I worked so hard on this, and it took me months to really make it the best it can be.

All your sex questions answered and problems solved, in this thorough video training course. All the details are going to be at this link:

Feel free to check it out. Or not. 

Alright, now let’s talk about bottoming.

The first thing you need to keep in mind is to not eat foods that upset your stomach on the days that you’re bottoming. I know that sometimes, sex is spontaneous, so if you slip up, it’s not the end of the world.

But if you know you’re going to bottom, you should try to avoid eating a lot of dairy foods or spicy foods on that day - just to lower your chances of feeling gross or bloated or constipated, etc. 

We all have different bodies and react to foods differently, so you know your body best and you can make the final judgement.

The better option is to eat foods that are rich in fiber. Fruits, veggies, etc. And, don’t forget your protein.

The second thing you gotta do is clean your ass. Pooping, and then douching your ass afterwards.

Go ahead and use the bathroom and try to empty out your stomach. Once you’re done, get an enema bulb and fill it up with lukewarm water. Put some lube on the tip and slowly insert it inside your ass.

Squirt some water inside, wait a minute, and then poop it out. It’s gonna be dirty.

Repeat this process 3-4 more times until you’re clean. 

I have a full douching tutorial on a section in my course, so if you’re interested in that, click the link I wrote down earlier or scroll to the bottom of this page and click the button.

By the way, I can make a separate post on anal fissures and what it was like for me to bleed out of my ass because of fucked up douching, and what I had to do to fix it. Let me know if you’d like this.

Third thing you gotta do is prepare your ass before seeing him, either with your finger or with a sex toy. I like using a small simple butt plug. 

Just insert a sex toy in your butt for no more than one hour after cleaning, and like get acquainted with it. Let your ass get used to having something inside of it. It should feel pretty snug and comfortable.

I also have a butt plug insertion tutorial on my course, so if you’re interested in that, go check it out.

The fourth thing you gotta do is literally just relax your mind when you’re having sex. There are two ways to do this. 

One is to focus on the feeling of being extremely turned on and excited. Try your best to override your anxiety with horniness, cause that’s the main reason why you’re hanging out with him in the first place.

Focus on that horniness and it’ll get your mind to relax. Think about how sexy it is for his dick to be inside of you.

The other way to relax is to trick your mind into thinking that you’re pooping. As his dick is going in and out, tell your mind that you’re pooping, so that your anal muscles will naturally open up. This will make the insertion process go 100000x more smoothly.

That’s pretty much the general overview of how to bottom properly. Thank you so much for reading - I hope this was helpful for you. 

Before I go, I want to let you know one last time that my full bottoming course is officially out. You can click the button right below to check it out. I worked really hard on this for you, so it’d mean a lot to me if you checked it out. 

Thank you again for reading. If you have any questions, you can leave a comment below or on the private course website.

I love you, take care. 

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Everything you need to have clean, painless sex as a gay bottom.


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