Everyone's always asking me, "what should I eat as a bottom to avoid bloating and to stay naturally clean down there?"
My go-to answer is and will always be: fiber and protein.
It's no secret that fiber is very popular amongst bottoms but let me quickly explain to you why that is the case....
Anal douching is the process of cleaning out your butt before having receptive anal sex. It's not a mandatory thing that you have to do, but it can help you feel more sexy and confident in bed, since you'll know that you're clean and won't accidentally shit on your man's dick.
It's important to...
1. You can spread some of them through kissing and skin-to-skin contact, specifically, CMV, herpes and syphilis. They should change the acronym to KTD’s.
2. The only curable STDs are Chlamydia, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Trichomoniasis. HIV, HPV, Hepatitis B, and Herpes are NOT curable.
I understand and respect preferences but this is just weird. I feel like nowadays it's definitely cooler to be asian, so like, that's great. But to put this on your profile? EYE.
Again, I understand and respect preferences but this is...
“Masc for masc”
These guys aren’t masculine they are insecure. If these guys hit you up, don’t trust them.
It’s normal to like fitness, but some guys have this as their literal name on their profiles. Like what in the-
If you hit me up because...
Don’t be too clingy.
I know this applies both ways but the jokes I’ve seen online, about bottoms being needy... Like there’s truth to them.
Take it from me, showing him too much affection: instant turn off.
Give a little mystery, a little cold shoulder here and there.
As gay dudes, I’m sure you know that people have come up with lots of different stereotypes for us. One of my favorite ones is the idea that we all have AIDS. I love when people think that all we do is have sex with each other and give each other lovely diseases.
This is no hate to anyone...
1. SEE OTHER PEOPLE.
I get it, instant gratification. And I guess everyone’s different.
But in my experience, these nights end with bad decisions and lots of tears.
Like, a lot of them.
I just feel like we're always going compare everyone that we meet to him ...
Last summer, one of the worst things that a man could possibly experience in this short beautiful world, happened to me. It involves bleeding out of your ass for a week straight. Can you guess what it was?
You guessed it! I’m talking about anal fissures. Long story short: an anal fissure is...
*This is not for everyone - just what works for me and Ben.
Let him take control.
Tops love dominance. Like, whenever I try to make a move, Ben literally goes, "no, no, no, you don't do that - I do."
So, if this sounds like your man, let him guide you through the night! He’ll...
Or I guess, just dating facts in general.
1. Being disgustingly obsessed with a man is not attractive.
If you’re the friend that’s known to only complain about the same dude in the same situation over and over again, you’re not being good to your friends or to yourself.
Basically, things that he does to me that make me want to throw up (but like, in a good way).
1. HUGS FROM BEHIND.
When he’s cooking or making a drink, or doing anything standing up, just creep up behind him and slowly give him a warm, tight hug from behind.
And then slowly...